I think a caregiver or relative is taking my parent's money. What should I do?
Reviewed answer
Document specific concerns and seek help without putting your parent at greater risk.
- Speak privately with your parent if safe. Record unexplained transactions, unpaid bills, pressure, or sudden document changes.
- Contact the bank's fraud or elder-exploitation team. Respect account-access limits and your parent's decision-making rights.
- In the US, report suspected exploitation to local Adult Protective Services; contact emergency services for immediate danger.
Get help if
Someone isolates your parent, blocks basic necessities, pressures signatures, or makes unexplained withdrawals.
More in the family kit.