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I think a caregiver or relative is taking my parent's money. What should I do?

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Document specific concerns and seek help without putting your parent at greater risk.

  1. Speak privately with your parent if safe. Record unexplained transactions, unpaid bills, pressure, or sudden document changes.
  2. Contact the bank's fraud or elder-exploitation team. Respect account-access limits and your parent's decision-making rights.
  3. In the US, report suspected exploitation to local Adult Protective Services; contact emergency services for immediate danger.

Get help if

Someone isolates your parent, blocks basic necessities, pressures signatures, or makes unexplained withdrawals.

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